Just looking at the speed of the memory won't tell you have fast it is. If you take 1 stick each of ddr266, ddr333 and ddr400 memory, and run them all at ddr266 speeds, they will all benchmark at the same speed when using identical bios settings.
BUT, the ddr400 has the ability to run at higher speeds, so you might as well go with either the ddr333 or 400 based memory. Any of the above memory types you mentioned will work on a 133Mhz based P4 system, but if you plan to OC it, the higher spec memory is the way to go.