lapping is very safe, i would advise using a mirror below the sand paper as they are very very smooth and even (same reason people use mirrors when doing coke) you should be able to find a mirror big enough around your house to can lap with. i would start with 600 grit paper, when the whole hs is hitting the paper and has even scoring across the surface move to 1000 grit then 2000, 4000, 6000, continue until you have reached the finest grit you can find, if you really really want a nice surface, after you have finished with the sandpaper go to your local hardware store and get a peice of metal that has been machined and polished (it is a must for you to make sure you get a metal that is harder then your hs metal), mild steel will work fine for aluminum, might have to get mildly hardened steel for copper, you will also have to get a few different lapping compounds, after the sandpaper you should be able to start with a very fine lapping compound and move to finer and finer compound, someone at the store may be needed to choose the right compound. put a small bit of the compound on the metal you bought, do the same thing you did with the sand paper, after each compound clean the hs and the metal with brake cleaner that you can get at a hardware store or auto parts store. continue as you did with the sand paper until you have finished with the finest compound, then clean the hs until you can no longer get ANYTHING off of the hs, the towel you are using will stay the same color no matter how much you clean. dry off the hs and you will have the smoothest hs you have ever seen, have fun.