As far as a performance test, PCMark's memory test is pretty good. But you have to understand that you are testing only memory substem performance. To put the results in perspective you need also run some 3D stuff and some real applications.
I run sandra only to verify clock rates and check other settings it shows reliably. As a benchmark it is well neigh useless, but if may help you spot a problem if the scores come out really wacky.
Run PCMark2002. It is a good test.
Run 3DMark2001SE. It will help to put the PCMark results in perspective. 3DMark2003 is so insensitive to core performance that it is poor for this use. I also run Quake3 Arena timedemos and do a SETI benchmark unit to further illuminate which setup is faster, and where. If you do much video or audio encoding you may wish to use that as part of your evaluation.
But the important thing is to realize that your are building a computer system, not just a memory subsytem. The most important tests are those that correspond to what you do with your machine, and for which tasks speed matter to you. Myself I play entirely too much Quake3, and Q3 needs speed. So I tend to optimize my system for best Q3 results, and let the other results fall where they may.