I'm using 25-30% Prestone "all-metal" anti-freeze. This is what I have on hand; I'd use any normal ethylene glycol based anti-freeze in a no-aluminum computer water-cooling system. I don't, but if I had any aluminum in the water system, I'd make sure the antifreeze was rated to protect it and use a minimum 25% anti-freeze in the water mix.
Cars and computer watercooling operate in totally different environments, but from the trouble I've had with dex-cool in a used vehicle (clogged heatercore multiple times), I won't use it anywhere. Also, I can't imagine going 2 years with a computer watercooling setup and not draining the water/anti mix at least once, so ordinary anti-freeze should be good enough. The dex-cool advantage for cars is not having to change antifreeze until 100,000 miles or 5 years; that's the theory anyway. YMMV