Crull are you sure about that
the yellow wire is the rpm sense wire and i doubt you need to be messing with that
from my knowlege of electronics you just nead a resitor in series with either the + or - power lines to the fan
if you have a 12v fan that uses 1.8 w and .15a it has a resistance of 80ohms
V=I*R
if resistors are in series you add up the total resitance devide the voltage by that
Rtotal=R1+R2
Vtotal/Rtotal=v
if you take that little v times the resistance of each of the resitors you get how many volts each gets
v*R1=V1 v*R2=V2
and V1+V2=Vtotal all the sub voltages will ad up to the total
so if i put a 20ohm resistor in series with a 80ohm fan
Rtotal=20+80=100
Vtotal/Rtotal = 12/100 = .12 = v
v*r1 = .12*20=2.4v = the little resitor gets 2.4v
v*r2 = .12*80=9.6v = your fan is running on 9.6v
A pot just changes resitance from 0 to a maxium
figuring out the wattage for your pot is somthing beond me just get a big one and if it melts you out $2 and get a bigger one