Ok, first, get this thing up and running. Patch windows, update hardware drivers, update the intel drivers. Now, get your apps loaded. See what your temps are running at. Make sure things are working for a day. After you've verified and setup all of those things, do a search on these forums and see what other's have used. Test out a few settings. Get very familiar with your bios.
Once all of this is done, come back and we will be more than happy to help. I'm not putting you off, but you will learn so MUCH more the better you familiarize yourself with your system.
I've been in your shoes before. OC'ing a freshly built rig can be a nightmare because you may encounter a problem that is not related to the oc, but to a bad setup and it can be a pain to troubleshoot.