Ok, since OCZ EB ram is way over-priced at the moment and not stocked by many retailers (including newegg), I went to Fry's. This was from reading the BH-5 thread at Xtreme Systems. I was looking for some Corsair XMS PC3500 because it is guaranteed BH-5 but I could not find any. I tried looking for KHX PC3200 non-A but there was none either. They even did not have any KHX PC3000, that has the possibility of BH-5 chips, rebranded DW50 BH-5 chips, rebranded DW60 BH-6 chips, and rebranded DW45 BH-5 older and CH-5 newer chips. In my desperation, I even tried looking for BH-5 chips on value ram. Obviously, that did not work. Fry's apparently only has OCZ LE PC3200 now (CH-5). So it looks like I'm going to order the 2x512MB KHX PC3000 kit from ZipZoomFly for $215, it seems many still get BH-5 from it.
Oh yeah, run your memory without the heat spreader because it will run cooler (I know, ironic huh). But you guys probably already knew that it gets you a better oc...