Running above 2.8v is quite normal, I'd say about 90% of members on this BB with modern-day systems do. I ran my Winbond CH5-based memory at 3.0v for over a year in my NF7. .13 micron and spec'ed at 2.5v. No problems at all, no airflow at all in that system, either, in fact. Many others have ran around 3.3v with some modules and good airflow without issue.
The A64 is different as the onboard memory controller often has problems with high vdimm levels. The memory has no problems, but the processor often dies around 3.3v+ range.
Not as respectful a response that I'd expect from a senior member.