With the help of the internet coding/programming is much easier than it was in early years - there are hundreds of tutorials online etc. that are all free that can assist.
There are 100's of Computer Languages, to answer which one is best, is impossible. Each language has their pros, and con's. What are you looking to code/programme? Websites, games, and so on.
If you let us know what you had in mind for coding/programming, it will allow us to help in suggesting a suitable language to use. Typically all computer languages are similar, just with different syntaxes.
Each person is different in abilities, I have known people who could jump straight in to coding and not need any help, while others will struggle; which is not un-common; it is after-all learning a completely new language.
My learning steps with web-based coding, HTML, JavaScript etc. But I eventually slowly progressed through Java, and C++; I am not amazing at any of them, but I know enough to write simple programmes. I have always been more of a designer over a programmer; but this will change over the years as I am slowly going back to programming.
I could lie, and say it will be easy; but it is not going to be. But it is an interesting thing to do, and a proud moment when you click run and your programme comes to life, and works. It is mostly trail and error, you can use the internet to find stepping stones, but these are pointless unless you plan to stick at it, honestly.