lol
long story short, i happened on this thread and the one i'm about to direct you to by accident
3.0c overclocking problems
I had a similar setup and found that 3.6Ghz@240Mhz (ADATA ram DDR500) was the max i could reach (stable) regardless of what i did but my cpu voltage was 1.575
now i still have the same mobo as you, corsair twinx1024-4000 coz i though it was the ram, upgraded to a prescott 3.4Ghz cpu which is water cooled with the TT big water, 2x 36Gb raptors in raid0 and a 9800xt.
with the new chip i couldnt get over 236Mhz stable and with the new ram, 220Mhz was too difficult.
I have now removed the raid array and done a few other things and think now thats it's GAT that is stuufing up the settings.
I changed my multiplier to 12 and the FSB to 100Mhz and run the os, then put the multiplier back to 17@240Mhz and now it's stable yet b4 i did that, yhe prescott wouldnt go over 220Mhz.
set ya GAT (game accelerater) settings to Turbo-A-A-D-D and if that works then ya get good ram bandwidth with your 3.6Ghz overclock, thats what i settled for when i had the northwood.
these boards do seem to massively undervolt though, luckily, i have mine set to 1.482ish and it is acually 1.39v (prescotts max at 1.55v instead of the northwood 1.75v)
hope i havent sent any one to sleep yet