Note that at a fixed frequency, a 3 dBA reduction cuts the noise in half. A 6 dBA noise cuts the noise in half of half, or quarters it. Etc. The A-weighted decibel (dBA) only allows comparison of noise at the same frenquency (pitch), but its weighting was made to approximate the human ear's sensitivity to different pitches. I.e., 21 dBA at a high pitch should sound just as loud as 21 dBA at a lower pitch.
Generally speaking, the frequency of the peak noise level is higher (a higher-pitch whine) for a 60mm fan than an 80mm fan, so they can tend to be less irritating.
Hmmm, 21 dBA 80mm. Unless I miss my guess, that's a Vantec 80mm stealth fan you're talking about?
Hope this helps a little. -- Paul