Just leave that palette snoop setting on default, which should be "disable". I think that just slows down your boot-up and is not needed under normal circumstances.
At 140 FSB the PCI bus should only be 35 MHz (using the 1/4 divider). The AGP bus runs at twice the PCI bus speed. Your GF4 Ti4200 should have no trouble running at 150 FSB (37.5 PCI and 75 AGP) and will probably handle even more. My guess is something else is holding you back.
Some network cards don't like to be overclocked much. Do you have one and if so, what kind? The PC1066 RDRAM might be running out of steam if you're using the 4X setting (140X4X2=1120). I'd stay go with the 3X setting if you push above 140 FSB.
That leaves cooling and voltage. While I suppose it's possible to have less than 43 degrees load CPU temps with a lapped retail cooler and Arctic Silver, especially if you have excellent case ventilation, however, I suspect that temp seems a little low for a stock heatsink. You need to check temps in real time after loading the CPU for maybe 15 minutes with Prime95 or Sandra Burn-in Wizard or something like that. I bet the real load CPU temps are more like 50 degrees.
Anyway, after you get your new cooler installed, try bumping up the vcore voltage another notch, I bet you'll get over the hump. If you're still only using the 1.55v like I initially recommended, you probably need more to get a higher overclock. Personally, I would not go any higher than 1.7v regardless of how good your cooling is, and to be very safe, maybe lower than that. But certainly, 1.6v with good cooling should be no problem. Those Northwoods start getting really power hungry when you get into the higher FSB speeds.