Video OUt on teh 9700 all in wonder

I have a ati 9700 pro all in wonder and i just hooked up the video out with the yellow av cable to the vcr so i can watch movies and crap on my tv. The thing is its either only on the tv or only on the monitor... or its on the monitor and the tv but the monitor shows the current crap and the TV just the wallpaper but way the hell off the "monitor screen" or vise versa. IS there anyway to see both of them at onceand so that they are exactly at the same area or do i have select either tv or monitor?

Thanks

BUMP - can anyone help me..?