Okay, try this. Since we know your FSB runs at 146, then keep it at 146 and lower your multi as low as your bios will let you set it. Then try to boot into windows.
If that works, keep rebooting into bios, raising your FSB 5 mhz at a time until you find out what is too high for you to get into windows at.
Once you find out how high you can get your FSB, then go back and start raising your multiplier until you find a happy medium of the two.
You will get the best results from sacrificing a high multiplier for higher FSB speed.
What do you have the voltage on your memory set to? 2.6, 2.7? Keep in mind with higher FSB you at least need to set it to 2.7 if not 2.8. Let me know how it turns out!