Get a basic Weller adjustable solder station. Costs you maybe $30. Will last you for years. They use standard 1/4" tips, so you can get them as fine as you need.
If youre doing fine tip work, the adjustable is good since its probably pc board or mobo related. Get a cheap soldering heatsink from rad-shack, turn down the wattage of your iron (they come with 40W, but the station can take up to 300W), and youre good to go.