Just curious and wondering what's going on: back to that big black screen - do you see a memory test at first, does it complete successfully then fade to black, then your RAID controller then lock up to a black screen?
If you see the memory check, isn't that when you hit del to enter setup?
Can you change a jumper to disable the SATA RAID? Some ASUS boards allow this. Just thinking it could be the lockup and then maybe you could get into the BIOS. If you use SATA, you could re-enable it later after resetting the BIOS.
Just grabbing at straws for now. And I would unplug the power cord when removing the CMOS battery and resetting the CMOS jumper.
Doesn't matter how many PCs you've built, as you know there's always one that's a real bear! But you've won before and I bet you can win this time, too!