Update:
System clock: 270
Ht multi: 3x or 4x
ram ratio: 533
4 hours of stability with these settings now, CPU has not hit 55ºc under full load
Pushing to 275 does not work with any combination of 3x/4x and 400/533 or voltage increases of any kind.
edit: tried to go farther with clockgen. BSOD moments after applying a 272 clock. tried with 3x and 4x HT multi as well..
I don't seem to have any other options. My system is very stable at these settings but increase the clock by 2 and it all goes to hell. I guess I should be happy, I am very close to my original goal now....but I still didn't quite make it :O