That makes sense... you deal with the theoretical quite a bit.
Being serious, as a whole, I see how it can add up in people's head. But just because a dude repairs a last gen card daily, didn't prove what the issue was on the new series. If anything, it pointed back to the cables. You literally posted toasted wires with old 3rd party cables. Now, I can make the logic leap too, but wasn't all in. Correlation is not causation in all. You did the best you could with the pictures you had. It's unfair to say poor...sorry about that.
That said, the big question now is, why did it happen on der8aurs sample (which he had trouble with the card from day 1 of even putting a signal on the screen), but not on ANY of Falcon Northwest's systems who used dozens of cards, psus, and cables?
I'd really like Nvidia to respond already....
If it's really the design like BZ said (i do believe him), why doesn't it happen with every card? What's the straw that breaks the camel's back to make this behavior happen?? So far we've seen 2 5090s do this, right??