How about we inject a little bit of science into the equation eh?
Let's assume we have a Danner Mag 3, being a 35W pump. In actuality the pump will draw a low less power, but let's run with 35W.
Let's assume that the pump dumps all 35W of its power as heat into the water as the water flows through the pump.
Water has a thermal capacity of 4186 J/kg°C. Water has a density of 1.00
Let's assume that the flow rates through the system is 2GPM, or 7.5LPM, which is fairly reasonable given that pump and a moderate-high restriction block, or two low-moderate restriction blocks, and a low-restriction radiator.
Per second, 7.5/60 = 0.125l, or 0.125kg of water flows through the pump, for a total thermal capacity of 4186 * 0.125 = ~523W/°C
Keeping that the pump dumps 35W of heat into the water, then the water will rise by 35/523 = 0.067°C as it flows through the pump.
So the difference between having the radiator before/after the pump is just 0.067°C
So there's the mathematical/physics way to disprove the misconception.