First of all, 3dmark is not a good indicator of an unstable system, as it can be affected by what video card drivers you use..I know, because I hack every driver set I get for my TNT2 Ultra, and go into 3dmark right after to check out my scores. Some drivers will work fine, and some are just garbage.
You might want to get some recomended ram modules....I personaly like Mushkin, although Crucial has been proven to be very tolerant to high bus speeds, (from what I've read).
Both my Mushkin modules will do 150mhz+...one is rated cas2 @ 133, and the other is rated at cas2 @ 150.
I would also NOT sacrifice cas timing for a few mhz, as it was proven that cas2 is faster than cas3 even when cas3 is 100mhz higher.
So if you set your cpu to say 800cas3, it would be slower than if you set it at 700 cas2, and anybody can verify this by running sandra at both settings...You'd be amazed by the results.
BTW, I got some off the shelf PNY memory (infineon) module and it is doing 140mhz in my BE6.
Your results may vary
Also please remember that younger people come here to learn as well as adults, so please be carefull with your language.
Thank you for understanding