Hey Aphex_Tom_9
It does seem like a start up program is causing you these problems. IF you would like, send me a PM and i can direct you to where you can find this program called Codestuff Starter. I'd post the link here, but to be honest, i cant exactly remember where i found that program. I know what site it was on, but that is about it. IF you would like you can
GO HERE and click on the link in the first post that says Useful Programs - A - Z. That is where i found the program. But if you cannot find it, just let me know.
Also, you might want to try a program called Hijack This (which can be dl-ed from its website
HERE ) But use that program at your own risk, because sometimes you might accidentally remove something that is really essential to your system. So don't forget to back everything up!
Also, you can try using Spybot Search and Destroy. It also has a tool which tells you what is running on startup and how to get rid of it. And hey, while your at it, you might as well search for spyware on your computer, because sometimes its the spyware that crashes stuff.
One last thing. If you check your Add/Remove Programs list, you might find some programs that have been installed without your knowing, and that might be what is causing you the problem. I am saying this, because before i patched up my computer with different utilities, programs would have magically appeared in there, which in the end only cause my system to slow down, even crash.
Good luck with this problem!
Raven