Nice pics. very well done.
For gettin those buggers off / out,
I use a plain old diaper pin and patience.
Do it on or against a hard surface & take your time.
A couple of the other suggestions sounded good too.
Soldier it onto the pin, but if you blub up the job, it may not fit back into the connector.
Crimp it using the other 2 tabs, may not make a good strong connection either.
You could always strip the wire a little where the wires go into the pin,
and soldier there, or keep trying to get the other crimps open.
I've done it, & have thought if it was worth it or not, but in the end,
I won, and did think it was worth it.
GL