The 9800m gs probably has more stream processors, shaders, and a higher clock. The 9650m gt might have more memory (1024mb) but that will only benefit you if you have a high resolution display. My laptop only has a 256mb 8600m gt. It's fine if I play games at 1440x900 or 1680x1050. But if I try playing at 1920x1200 it gets pretty choppy. A card with more memory might help with higher resolutions, but generally its better to have a faster card with more stream processors than a card with a bunch of memory, especially in laptops.