Captain Slug said:
I think the only thing missing from your points is the importance of proportion in the whole equation. You went over it briefly but your ratio was off based on national survey results
1:0.7:1 is the common result of those surveys
36/24/36 are the magical numbers but aren't ideal since the important thing is the proportion itself.
But all these points are moot if you've matured to the level where you find a person's personality to be their most attractive (or repulsive) feature.
I agree with that. It is the ratio that is important. I should have made that clear. I remember that a lot of attractive women of different body mass indexes all had that ratio, from Venus of Milo to Marilyn Monroe to Kate Moss...
well, I agree that personality is important. but from a purely attraction point of view, it really is fine tuning. if a person is ugly you might never bother finding out their personality (and I think a lot of people are this shallow)
And I think someone's personality might be a variable, and might be linked to their appearance and other characteristics:
For example, take someone really good looking. He/She's been good looking all his/her life and knows it. Ever since childhood that person has been adored, so that person expects to be adored, which could lead to a "bad personality". Someone who has not been good looking all their life would have to work much harder to gain attention, and so ends up compensating for their appearance with a "good personality".
Maybe more interesting is the following: how a "nerd" changes his personality through life: as a "nerd" he studies hard in school and is made fun of by the "jocks" who don't study much. At this stage in life he is not very confident and has a low self esteem. After going through college and landing a high paid job as a lawyer, the girls are all chasing him (for his money partly). This guy's "personality" is transformed - confident, high self esteem, possibly a bit stuck up, whereas the "jock" might have not gone to college and continued working at a burger restaurant, not so hot any more.
What I described are stereotypes, but it is not impossible to find such examples in real life.
Krieger said:
For all those who like to drool over NATALIE PORTMAN, my brother had a friend who went to harvard(she did go/goes there). She doesn't have a very pleaseant personality apparently.
That's about all I ahve to say about this...though the discussion is quite interesting... carry on.
it is possible that she might be hassled for autographs and kisses all the time
, so that could be one reason for her bad personality. another possible reason is what I explained above.