I knew I would find it again.
http://www.overclock.net/t/1535527/...ing-different-drives-vs-same-drive-benchmarks
This is basically what I was trying to say in my post. Stripe size with SSD in RAID 0 is basically a non-factor because SSDs are not HDDs. They don't have problems with access times, or read/write speeds, or fragmentation that mechanical hard drives have. Stripe size was important for HDDs because of those issues.
But stripe size would affect SSDs negatively the larger you go because of wasted space and garbage collection (TRIM cycles, including those when needing to write to a cell that already has data on it). It's best to size the stripe for the smallest file size you would have, which if you are using it as a boot drive, would mean 8kB, to align with the 4kB cell size on a SSD.
And speaking about alignment, that's a whole other issue which I don't know about in regards to RAID. Upon installing a modern OS on a SSD that is SSD aware, when formatting and partitioning, the OS can align the partition correctly. But this may be a issue where the user would have to somehow manually align partitions on the SSDs when in a RAID setup, as the RAID controller/driver may not align the partitions. This could lead to even more wear and tear on the SSD.