i am not sure if the ocz is compat. im sure it is but im not positive.
i ran the corsair you have listed and it worked fine at ddr400 speeds.
to help with some confusion on dual channel.
if you run it with the 2 sticks but 1gb. in the slots you have listed you will be ok and get dual channel.
if you want more ram installed and still keep dual channel you will need these combos.
2x256 and 1x512
2x512 and 1x1gb
2x1gb and 1x2gb
what you have to do is the dual channel slots amounts have to be added together ie 2x512 = 1gb and the other slot that is free needs to have that amount installed in it. so you would need a 1gb stick.
i dont think they make a 2gb stick in ddr so the best you can do is 2gb total and keep dual channel. which will be fine for an xp system and games.
i did notice that you already have a xp2500+. i wouldnt drop any money at all into a new cpu. save it for a future build.
actually what i would do is just upgrade the whole thing. for the price of the mem. cpu. you could sell what you have and get a pretty good system that will be alot better. then what you have.
motherboard-
http://www.newegg.com/Product/Product.aspx?Item=N82E16813128090 $97 shipped
cpu-
http://www.newegg.com/Product/Product.aspx?Item=N82E16819103194 $77 shipped
mem- (2gb kit)
http://www.newegg.com/Product/Product.aspx?Item=N82E16820227139 $26 shipped ar
(4gb kit)
http://www.newegg.com/Product/Product.aspx?Item=N82E16820227269 $65 shipped ar
not sure if you would need a psu or not. and i think the onboard video is about equal to what you have now. if not you get a decent one for about $50 or less.
so the socket a upgrade would run cpu and mem. $215-250
new stuff would be minus a psu/vid card $200-240
you could even get a different motherboard lower priced one.
the cpu can overclock to almost 5600-6000 speeds with the stock cooling.
if you dont want to upgrade to new stuff just go for the ram.
but since you were kinda planning on going with a cpu i would just do the whole system. you will notice ahuge diff.
this was just another option for you. i hate how people say to just buy all newer stuff but for the price comparison you would be better off this way.
plus you could sell you old stuff locally. make a whole system out of it. might get about $100-150 from craigslist for it all. then the upgrade will cost ya about 100-150 max.
just something to think about
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if you look around you might some things cheaper. wait for a sale. got a fry's near you? they always have good sales.
the cpu you can get a free case just pay the 18 shipping on it.