That said... You've made it much further than I have! hahahaha
(Maybe because you're having less fun...)
But what you've just described is EXACTLY how I felt about Diablo IV. (In fact... I felt much worse about Diablo IV.) After playing through all of Diablo II Remastered just before I started... I felt CHEATED by Diablo IV.
It ran like garbage on my old system (despite not being all that impressive to look at...) And my Necromancer was far less powerful than the one I had in Diablo II... mainly because you had far less assignable buttons in Diablo IV than you had in Diablo II...
I was, quite frankly, APPALLED...
I mean... you couldn't even get a good set of spells going. You were always one or two spells short of what you needed. It was pathetic! Like "Okay... I can summon my skeletons and skeletal mages but I
can't summon the Golem, too??!" "I have to replace the Golem with one of my curses if I want to use curses at all??!"
Stupid stuff like that. (BTW... What's "TOTK"??)
I'm still at the save where I just left the Creche. Now I'll go right back in and get that sword (then I'll see if there are any goblins still alive...)
In the original Baldur's Gate and Baldur's Gate II... I think you had larger parties... Like 5 or 6 or something. I could be mistaken... this was like a decade ago.
I always enjoyed turn-based stuff... Especially Final Fantasy Tactics and Disgaea.