been there done that
you should have been able to pull it off with the 40W core.
but more and more these PCBs (the curcuit board thing) is loaded with copper , layered , and has things called VIAs, copper holes which shift the heat around.
SOME stuff (not nessiarilly what your working with there) the board is a big bloody heat sync, that sucks all the heat out of the solder gun before the "new Improved" non-lead solder and high temp solder even melts.
Torins tip of melting new fresh solder on can get a thermal conduction going by having liquid solder wrapped (more) around the tip, as opposed to a few molecules of heat conduction trying to break through the solder blob. and can add back flux from a cleaned (of flux) blob. but if the tip goes cool, nothing will budge.
i got tired of being beaten by all this heat syncing, and weasily little solder guns, and re-thought out the whole thing.
Why is the gun freezing on contact
Really "pro" pencil soldering guns, like on $100+ temp controlled stations, have big copper cores. even if the heating element isnt huge, they dont go cold on contact so fast, because the CORE is still blazing hot, and keeping the tip hot.
dont FIGHT it , it will win
no mater how long you try and war with a solder blob if it didnt melt when you hit it with the HOT tip, it wont by holding it there any longer, cause the tip isnt Hot anymore. you must stop wait till the tip and/or core is back up to screaming hot, then try again.
soo 140 200 even 250+ or whatever it was wellers, the heater is there, but there is no "core" to hold the heat. so again the same thing applies, if it didnt work at first, it wont, you have to back off get the tip hot again, and take a run at it. I fried 2 wellers over time, trying to do fat stuff , and heat synced stuff, the tips contacts come undone easily, and by the time you Fight things over and over again, they burn themselves out, because they are designed for intermittant use.
i went and bought the crafstman 150-400W Pencil gun, yup i wanted major wattage, but with a big core to hold heat. and i can melt huge solder blobs on all sorts of things now.
&#&@$^ i beat the thing. Its a pencil , its a gun, but the main thing is it has a huge core that holds the heat.
so if you cant afford a good primo copper core temperature adjust soldering station, check out sears for the craftsman pencil gun at 1/2 to 1/3rd the price.
sure it isnt designed for working with smaller components, but if they tick me off enough
it will certannly remove them fast enough.
also some of the battery operated ones, will get hot FAST too, but they didnt last any time at all, torturing them.
some of the pencil butane ones get hot enough, but so much side shooting waste heat was problematic, burn me, burn some wire etc, and they didnt last time either
and neither of those had the Core, they just had lots of "power" like the weller.
and tips have to be clean, or they dont conduct heat with the junk insulating them.
solder WIck, will pull solder off allowing you to remove a component, but it is more usefull for cleanup, than for through Hole component removal
a Solder Sucker will suck the solder off the blob AND through the hole, holding the wire. so when removing wired through board components a solder sucker will clear the holes better. and BULB suckers dont suck enough. the spring loaded suckers that look like this
http://www.qwikfast.co.uk/catalogue/images/silvsoldsucker633609.jpg
put the smack down on the solder in one quick move. you just get the solder point hot enough, then QUICKly "seal" the solder sucker right on top of the solder blob, and click.
Wick is still easier, but if the component is (say) purposfully soldered deeper into the hole, only the solder sucker will clear the hole.
once you get a good hot clearing of the hole, the part might have a teeney bit still holding it that can be manually freed by pulling hard.
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