Something i've been meaning to mention but keep forgetting. If you want to, you can close the VMWare Server Console window and your VMs will stay running. Not only does it free up some memory, but it also saves a few cycles as that console uses up some cpu time while its open. If you need to get at your VMs, just open the console again, and your VMs will show up.
If i get around to figuring out how, i'll add a part on connecting to VMs from another PC. That console is designed to administer VMs over multiple systems. I think you have to configure some options to make that happen though.
Also, that vmhgfs module that is mentioned in the VmWare Tools install is designed to allow transparent access to the Guest OS filesystem from the Host OS. Which eliminates the need for samba, and allows FahMon direct access w/o having to go through windows networking. Unfortunately the module wont compile on my system, if i get it working, i'll add it in also.