Notice your timings
Quite a bit different from 8-8-8
Yes, and I think everyone is missing my point.
I can run my RAM at 2100+MHz, BUT! I have not tweaked it because I was dealing with a RANDOM CRASH. I was not able to put my finger on it.
Even running stock (Optimized Bios Settings) my IMC was too low and the RAM was running stock at 2000MHz. My chip just has a weak IMC, like Brolloks said. It will run it, but maxed out like that my system randomly shuts down without warning and without errors.
I could probably optimize my RAMS to run at a higher clock, but for 24/7 use I don't see the benefit since we are talking about miliseconds. And since we don't use the "Essword" here, we will just leave it at that.
I appreciate everyones input, and like I have said, it was user error. Like Nzanzeb said, I am in the big leagues now, so I can't expect to be without growing pains.
Edit: Watching my GPU gadgets, I could see one of them bounce to 0% randomly. This may be the RAM dropping a signal to the video cards or something. Who knows, hopefully I found the root cause of my crashes, and then I can go from there.