First of all, let me apologize for being so confusing this morning. I was in a hurry trying to get ready for work and some of my analysis and advice was well, "half-baked".
What threw me off was the lack of an "XMP-1600" column in the CPU-z SPD tab. I will show you what I mean with a pic from my system. Afterward, I remembered I had seen this before with another forum participant who was using Kingston 1600 blue ram. For some reason, CPU-z doesn't pick up that info from the Kingston ram module like it does for other brands.
Your ram certainly is capable of running at 1600 mhz at 1.65 volts with appropriate timings and your bios from what I can tell was assigning the timings more or less appropriately. The problem I saw in your post #45 was that your system bus at 245 mhz had pushed your ram past its rating of 1600 mhz. From the CPU-z Memory tab I could see the ram was running at 816.7x2 or 1633.4 mhz which is beyond its rating if you push that system bus any more the ram frequency will soon become the source of instability. Remember, CPU-z reports ram speed at half the DDR3 transfer rate.
All ram marketed at 1600 mhz is really 1333 ram that will do 1600 mhz with either extra voltage or relaxed timings or both, in other words, if it is overclocked which is the XMP setting. Motherboard bioses often will not automatically configure the XMP profile of ram correctly so you have to abandon the automatic setting and configure it manually at that level.
You seemed to be making good progress with your overclock and you said you passed Prime95 blend for one hour. That's good. If you can pass two hours you can consider it stable in my book.
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So, let's start over from scratch, okay? Here is an overclocking method I have recommended to many Noobs on the forum that has proven helpful. It is patient, incremental, systematic and safe.
You say you have set your system back to stock now. So what you want to do to keep your ram frequency from exceeding its 1600 mhz rating as you overclock the system bus is to start the ram at 1066 instead of 1333.
Set the ram voltage at 1.55.
Set the CPUNB voltage to 1.225.
Watch your CPUNB frequency and your HT Link frequency in CPU-z as you overclock. Don't let the CPUNB exceed 2600 mhz. Don't let the HT Link exceed 2400 mhz. Keep the HT Link between 2200 and 2400 mhz.
As you begin your overclock with CPUJ at stock frequency and voltages, start increasing your CPU frequency by 5 mhz increments. After each increment, run a Prime95 blend test of 20 minutes to test for stability. Have HWMonitor open to monitor core temps during each test. When you cannot pass the 20 minute Prime95 blend test (meaning: blue screen, spontaneous restart, lockup, a core worker drops out) increase the CPU core voltage a little and retest for 20 minutes with Prime. Add a little more core voltage if necessary to make it stable. Now start increasing the CPU frequency again by 5 mhz increments. Repeat these steps until:
Your core temp begins to exceed 55c or your core voltage exceeds 1.5 or you cannot get it stable for the Prime test.
At this point, report back with pics of CPU-z tabs: "CPU", "Memory" and "SPD"
In the end, we will have you run a longer Prime95 blend test to confirm stability. 20 minutes is a good tentative for the beginning stages of the overclock process because its time efficient and if you can pass 20 minutes of Prime blend you can conclude you are at least close to being stable.