Lastly I believe since the flow rate is reduce by half on each radiator (in parallel) the water will travel slower in each one thus having more time to cool down.
flow rate is decreased due to lower volume, not any change in speed. the speed with which the water moves in any tube in your system will be the same as long as resistance is the same along split lines, the flow rate only changes because less volume is moving at that speed.
THT, you could probably take a vote on this and get some different answers, but i would think the best increase in potential for your system would come from getting an evo or a white water.
pump good enough? i would also say that, yes, the eheim 1250 would be sufficient. a higher power pump doesnt hurt matters (unless you get big enough to have the heat the motor creates become considerable), but with a pump of that caliber i would upgrade elsewhere first, then later consider upgrading the pump to see if there is more potential to utilize. (i always look at a pump increase as just squeezing more out of what you have, other upgrades to your loop actually increase potential.)
better temps with another heatercore? I would expect better temps with another heatercore, but its hard to say by how much, which is what really matters. there is plenty of room for improvement in your temps relative to room temperature, but it depends where the limiting factor is in your setup. where would you guess it is? i would guess the biggest factor would be the waterblock, then the heatercore second, then the pump.