Instead of trying to chase down the watercooling issue, first get the hardware problem fixed. At this point I would seriously consider going totally back to air and getting your computer working, then go back and mess with the water. Trying to fix two or more problems at the same time can cause endless headaches.
When you set things up, you set them up according to the directions. If the GPU calls for 4 bolts to mount it, you don't just put three and hope it will work. If the heatsink is somewhat in the way (doesn't look like it can possibly be by much from what I can see of a pic of the MB), pull out a dremel and cut the heatsink a little or use a shorter bolt or something for the GPU. Or maybe buy another chipset heatsink. They are pretty cheap. But install it like the directions say.
Watercooling is just not that hard, and I am not sure why you are having so much trouble. I wish I could drive over to your house and help you get the thing working in person.
If I was your Dad and you were having this much grief, I would want you to ditch the "expensive" water thing and get the computer working. He really is dead wrong about the best temps he is telling you, and there are thousands upon thousands worldwide that can prove him wrong.
When you set things up, you set them up according to the directions. If the GPU calls for 4 bolts to mount it, you don't just put three and hope it will work. If the heatsink is somewhat in the way (doesn't look like it can possibly be by much from what I can see of a pic of the MB), pull out a dremel and cut the heatsink a little or use a shorter bolt or something for the GPU. Or maybe buy another chipset heatsink. They are pretty cheap. But install it like the directions say.
Watercooling is just not that hard, and I am not sure why you are having so much trouble. I wish I could drive over to your house and help you get the thing working in person.
If I was your Dad and you were having this much grief, I would want you to ditch the "expensive" water thing and get the computer working. He really is dead wrong about the best temps he is telling you, and there are thousands upon thousands worldwide that can prove him wrong.