So basically what you need to do now is to go into bios and manually set your Memory frequency to 1600, your DRAM voltage to voltage to 1.65 and manually adjust the timings to what you see in the XMP-1600 column. When you change "DRAM Timing Control" from Auto to Manual your will then be able to see a whole bunch of individual timings that are now hidden from view while it is on Auto. There will be quite a few of them, more than what you see in CPU-z. Only concern yourself with the ones that show in the XMP-1600 column of CPU-z SPD tab. Be aware that the terminology may be a little different in your bios than it is in CPU-z. Basically, the ones you need to be concerned with in your bios are the first five and then CR (Command Rate) which will appear towards the bottom in your bios. The magnitude of the numbers is one clue. Some of the timings have small numbers like 8 or 9 and some have big numbers like 24 or 36 that help guide you. The CR is the only one with a "T". When in doubt, make a small change that probably won't prevent you from booting into Windows and then check it out in the CPU-z "Memory" tab. If you changed the wrong one, you won't see the desired change there and then you can go back into bios and try again.
Post back with pics of CPU-z tabs: Memory and SPD