Sgt; u need to slow down in your thought process. sometimes you have to back off HT Link or NB Freq or RAM settings to find the max OC of the CPU. As you increase the FSB, the ratios set within the bios are TOO much for the HTLink or CPU NB or RAM, and it won't boot. By reducing these settings a notch, you'll still be able to run, and might find more stability. Once you reach that MAX OC you're looking for, then you can fine tune the other settings.
I also found my RAM runs faster if I downclock it and let the board set the timing via auto settings; reason being, RAM is set to DDR800 (which would normally read as 400mhz in cpuz) and has the timing of DDR800 (pretty fast; like 6-6-6) yet when loading in to windows with the huge FSB number, you'll see the RAM is really running at DDR1333 speeds with the timing of the DDR800... pretty sweet.
You want the HT Link around 2k, NB Freq around 2200, and the ram close to 1333mhz; but with these settings just a notch off, you won't really notice any REAL day to day performance notices.
You need to look around the bios for CPU NB volts and HT Link volts; i found by bumping these up just one settings i was able to OC the CPU more with less volts. (as in, it might be another voltage holding you back opposed to jamming MORE VOLTS just to the CPU
PS: post CPUz screen shots (CPU and Memory tab). you can upload them directly to the forums, so you don't have to link to them. This gives up more details sometimes.